For two. On purpose.
The private app for two people who run their dynamic on purpose. Defined roles, daily check-ins, shared rituals, and one channel for just the two of you. One subscription covers you both.
18+ · Private by design · Cancel anytime
FROM THE ACTUAL APP
How it works
One invite code connects exactly two people. No feeds, no discovery, no strangers. Your space is yours alone.
Choose your roles, set your rituals, agree your terms. Change them whenever life does. The app bends to your shape.
Daily check-ins, shared tasks, private messages. The structure you designed, kept alive a few minutes at a time.
Features
Everything inside ObeyMe exists to make your agreement real, daily, and impossible to drift away from.
Every dynamic has its own shape. Pick the roles that match yours, swap them when life changes, and let the whole app adapt around them.
Customizable questions, a few intentional minutes a day. Small things stay small when you surface them on purpose.
Assign, schedule, and complete the routines that hold your household together, with proof you both can see.
Messaging built for two, away from the noise of every other app on your phone. Just you, just them.
Pricing
Download free, pair with your partner, and unlock the full experience with a premium subscription.
The full experience, month to month. Cancel anytime in your App Store settings.
For two people who already know this is how they work best.
Pay once. Yours for good. The commitment tier, fittingly.
Subscriptions renew automatically unless cancelled at least 24 hours before the period ends. Manage or cancel anytime in your App Store account settings. Prices shown in USD; local pricing may vary.
FAQ
No. One subscription covers the pairing, so whichever of you subscribes, you both get the full experience. Plenty of apps in this space charge each person separately. Charging twice for one dynamic never made sense to us.
Two consenting adults, 18 or older, who want intentional structure for their dynamic: defined roles, shared expectations, and daily communication. Married, partnered, or an arrangement that is entirely your own. If you run it on purpose, this is your app.
Completely. There is no public feed, no discovery, and no way for strangers to contact you. You pair with one known partner via an invite code, and everything you create is visible only to the two of you.
Then the app changes with you. Roles can be swapped, agreements edited, and the partnership can be reset or ended at any time by either person. Everything is opt-in and everything is revocable.
Your data belongs to you. We don't sell personal information, there is no ad tracking, and you can delete your account and its data entirely from inside the app. Details live in our Privacy Policy.
iPhone first, Android next. Reach out through the contact page and you'll hear the day it ships.
18+ · Private by design · Cancel anytime
